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- Ana_ 说...
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- 2005年 12月 28日, 2:07
I hurt myself today

what have i become?
:(

[quote][b][user]Ana_[/user][/b] 说： what have i become? :([/quote]

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- jam02 说...
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- 2005年 12月 28日, 11:00
...you know it won't help you sort anything out, right?
Sure you might feel it's helping you deal with things, but the harsh reality is that it probably isn't helping at all =[

[quote][b][user]jam02[/user][/b] 说： ...you know it won't help you sort anything out, right? Sure you might feel it's helping you deal with things, but the harsh reality is that it probably isn't helping at all =[[/quote]
由 jam02 在 2007年 4月 10日, 21:22 编辑

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- giveuptheghost 说...
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- 2005年 12月 28日, 14:53
I want to hurt myself sometimes too but never get brave enough to cause significant damage, though I did some when I was a teen.

I would suggest getting on an antidepressant—it should take away those feelings.

But some people hurt themselves on occasion and are otherwise doing OK. Just so long as you don't cause permanent damage.

People are here for you.

[quote][b][user]giveuptheghost[/user][/b] 说： I want to hurt myself sometimes too but never get brave enough to cause significant damage, though I did some when I was a teen. I would suggest getting on an antidepressant—it should take away those feelings. But some people hurt themselves on occasion and are otherwise doing OK. Just so long as you don't cause permanent damage. People are here for you.[/quote]

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- jayphilips 说...
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- 2005年 12月 29日, 1:07
antidepressives dont really help. they just suppress your feeling, which is never good.
it sometimes seems quite hard, but the only way ou is to feel happy. i feel happy bout the stars. ok, i admit, when i feel really angry/mad/sad, that doesn't help much, then id rather hit a brick wall. but at least sometimes it help. and looking at the scars on my arm helps too..

well, i hope i could be of any help, or can be in the future.. ghost is right, people are here for you. at least we are

[quote][b][user]jayphilips[/user][/b] 说： antidepressives dont really help. they just suppress your feeling, which is never good. it sometimes seems quite hard, but the only way ou is to feel happy. i feel happy bout the stars. ok, i admit, when i feel really angry/mad/sad, that doesn't help much, then id rather hit a brick wall. but at least sometimes it help. and looking at the scars on my arm helps too.. well, i hope i could be of any help, or can be in the future.. ghost is right, people are here for you. at least we are[/quote]

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- prashanthan 说...
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- 2006年 1月 2日, 21:49
Sometimes I want to hurt myself.

But usually I want to hurt someone else.

"<btc> *** is teh tr00 aZn"

[quote][b][user]prashanthan[/user][/b] 说： Sometimes I want to hurt myself. But usually I want to hurt someone else.[/quote]

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- rockpyre 说...
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- 2006年 1月 6日, 8:31
you could learn

you know, you could just take an astronomy class and realize that we ourselves are way too small and insignificant to hold our own problems on such a high pedestal. instead of just concentrating on your devastating moments and being lazy with your emotions by letting it eat away your happiness, indulge in the freedom of exploration. just randomly meet new people. sure, 50-85% of em are not going to be worthwhile, but that other 15-50% of em will throw in new perspectives on life, introduce new elements to the way you live and simply provide priceless experiences. take on something you can learn, or something that you can accomplish in the end and feel proud of. in the end, it's all about gettin off yer ass and changing your own world. and if you're under a roof with parents who won't allow it, well, you're simply too young and inexperienced to be hurting yourself over situations. life is such a complex, spiraling puzzle (and way too often taken for granted) and is something worth waking up to observe everyday. good luck.

A good story should be orgasmic

[quote][b][user]rockpyre[/user][/b] 说： you know, you could just take an astronomy class and realize that we ourselves are way too small and insignificant to hold our own problems on such a high pedestal. instead of just concentrating on your devastating moments and being lazy with your emotions by letting it eat away your happiness, indulge in the freedom of exploration. just randomly meet new people. sure, 50-85% of em are not going to be worthwhile, but that other 15-50% of em will throw in new perspectives on life, introduce new elements to the way you live and simply provide priceless experiences. take on something you can learn, or something that you can accomplish in the end and feel proud of. in the end, it's all about gettin off yer ass and changing your own world. and if you're under a roof with parents who won't allow it, well, you're simply too young and inexperienced to be hurting yourself over situations. life is such a complex, spiraling puzzle (and way too often taken for granted) and is something worth waking up to observe everyday. good luck.[/quote]

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- giveuptheghost 说...
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- 2006年 1月 6日, 14:45
Some people have chemical imbalances—for example, my brain doesn't produce enough serotonin, so it causes me to have obsessions and compulsions—so counseling and medicine is still most effective in those cases, but then of course a more fulfilling life is always helpful beyond those.

[quote][b][user]giveuptheghost[/user][/b] 说： Some people have chemical imbalances—for example, my brain doesn't produce enough serotonin, so it causes me to have obsessions and compulsions—so counseling and medicine is still most effective in those cases, but then of course a more fulfilling life is always helpful beyond those.[/quote]

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- rockpyre 说...
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- 2006年 1月 6日, 20:28
well..... then..... *IF THAT'S THE CASE* - you can stop listening to trent reznor. cuz there honestly is much better out there, and he's becoming a marketing whore.

A good story should be orgasmic

[quote][b][user]rockpyre[/user][/b] 说： well..... then..... *IF THAT'S THE CASE* - you can stop listening to trent reznor. cuz there honestly is much better out there, and he's becoming a marketing whore. [/quote]

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- giveuptheghost 说...
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- 2006年 1月 7日, 4:04
Maybe he was listening to Johnny Cash.

[quote][b][user]giveuptheghost[/user][/b] 说： Maybe he was listening to [artist]Johnny Cash[/artist].[/quote]

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- jam02 说...
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- 2006年 1月 7日, 18:48
Re:

Quoth giveuptheghost:
Maybe he was listening to Johnny Cash.
I was gonna mention that, but meh XD

[quote][b][user]jam02[/user][/b] 说： [quote][b]Quoth [user]giveuptheghost[/user][/b]: Maybe he was listening to [artist]Johnny Cash[/artist].[/quote] I was gonna mention that, but meh XD[/quote]

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- Ana_ 说...
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- 2006年 1月 12日, 0:52
well actually i was listening to nine inch nails, 'cos someone liked their version more than the johnnycash one.

[quote][b][user]Ana_[/user][/b] 说： well actually i was listening to nine inch nails, 'cos someone liked their version more than the johnnycash one.[/quote]

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- giveuptheghost 说...
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- 2006年 1月 12日, 0:55
That is the original.

[quote][b][user]giveuptheghost[/user][/b] 说： That is the original.[/quote]

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- jam02 说...
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- 2006年 1月 12日, 21:22
Re:

Quoth Ana_:
well actually i was listening to nine inch nails, 'cos someone liked their version more than the johnnycash one.
I've got 3 versions of the song, and for me the original (by NIN) is the more tear jerking.

Sevendust just ruind it though.

[quote][b][user]jam02[/user][/b] 说： [quote][b]Quoth [user]Ana_[/user][/b]: well actually i was listening to nine inch nails, 'cos someone liked their version more than the johnnycash one.[/quote] I've got 3 versions of the song, and for me the original (by NIN) is the more tear jerking. Sevendust just ruind it though.[/quote]

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- [已删除用户] 说...
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- 2006年 1月 25日, 15:27
Get a girlfriend and get out more kk. People who hurt themselves are total pillocks unless theyre are actually fucked in the head or have had a really traumatic event take place (eg parents dieing..) Be grateful for what youve been giving, you have a computer and you live in germany so it pretty much goes iwthout saying that youre already in the top 1% of living conditions and quality of life in the world. Just do something in your life that gives you value, noone is any use to the human race in their room cutting themselves...

[quote][b][user][/user][/b] 说： Get a girlfriend and get out more kk. People who hurt themselves are total pillocks unless theyre are actually fucked in the head or have had a really traumatic event take place (eg parents dieing..) Be grateful for what youve been giving, you have a computer and you live in germany so it pretty much goes iwthout saying that youre already in the top 1% of living conditions and quality of life in the world. Just do something in your life that gives you value, noone is any use to the human race in their room cutting themselves...[/quote]

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- giveuptheghost 说...
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- 2006年 1月 25日, 18:02
Self-harm is usually indicative of a mental disorder that should be treated.

[quote][b][user]giveuptheghost[/user][/b] 说： Self-harm is usually indicative of a mental disorder that should be treated.[/quote]

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- SantaAna 说...
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- 2006年 2月 5日, 13:18
I have been listening to the Cash version on repeat
It's just one of those days....

[quote][b][user]SantaAna[/user][/b] 说： I have been listening to the Cash version on repeat It's just one of those days....[/quote]

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- giveuptheghost 说...
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- 2006年 2月 5日, 15:51
:(

Try some S Club 7. ;)

[quote][b][user]giveuptheghost[/user][/b] 说： :( Try some [artist]S Club 7[/artist]. ;)[/quote]

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- SantaAna 说...
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- 2006年 2月 5日, 18:59
Re:

Quoth giveuptheghost:
:(

Try some S Club 7. ;)

He he that really made me laugh :o)

[quote][b][user]SantaAna[/user][/b] 说： [quote][b]Quoth [user]giveuptheghost[/user][/b]: :( Try some [artist]S Club 7[/artist]. ;)[/quote] He he that really made me laugh :o)[/quote]

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- JuanCoolkid08 说...
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- 2006年 9月 26日, 3:26
well

see, the nine inch nails version is great, but there is something special about the fact that the cover is the last song that johnny cash recorded and made a video for after his wife died/before he died. he searched for 2 days for a song that adequately summed up his feelings on his wife's death, and found it in nine inch nails' song. he then recorded it, made a video, and died within 3 months of his wife's death (maybe 4 months)

[[how touching]]

by the way. i love to talk with strangers.

IM me:
JuanitoFrederico

[quote][b][user]JuanCoolkid08[/user][/b] 说： see, the nine inch nails version is great, but there is something special about the fact that the cover is the last song that johnny cash recorded and made a video for after his wife died/before he died. he searched for 2 days for a song that adequately summed up his feelings on his wife's death, and found it in nine inch nails' song. he then recorded it, made a video, and died within 3 months of his wife's death (maybe 4 months) [[how touching]][/quote]

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- silenceforce 说...
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- 2006年 9月 26日, 13:03
JuanCoolkid08 said:
see, the nine inch nails version is great, but there is something special about the fact that the cover is the last song that johnny cash recorded and made a video for after his wife died/before he died. he searched for 2 days for a song that adequately summed up his feelings on his wife's death, and found it in nine inch nails' song. he then recorded it, made a video, and died within 3 months of his wife's death (maybe 4 months)

[[how touching]]

O______o'' I haven't known that before o.O now i'm sad =(

The happiest people don't have it all,
they just make the best of what they have.

[quote][b][user]silenceforce[/user][/b] 说： [quote][b][user]JuanCoolkid08[/user][/b] said: see, the nine inch nails version is great, but there is something special about the fact that the cover is the last song that johnny cash recorded and made a video for after his wife died/before he died. he searched for 2 days for a song that adequately summed up his feelings on his wife's death, and found it in nine inch nails' song. he then recorded it, made a video, and died within 3 months of his wife's death (maybe 4 months) [[how touching]][/quote] O______o'' I haven't known that before o.O now i'm sad =([/quote]

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- todeskreuz 说...
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- 2006年 9月 27日, 1:43
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- [已删除用户] 说...
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- 2006年 9月 28日, 23:01
about that matter i totaly agree with the first phrase of rockphyre: "we ourselves are way too small and insignificant to hold our own problems on such a high pedestral", couldnt say it better, would just add taht hurting yourself will just hurt the people tha really care with you...

[quote][b][user][/user][/b] 说： about that matter i totaly agree with the first phrase of rockphyre: "we ourselves are way too small and insignificant to hold our own problems on such a high pedestral", couldnt say it better, would just add taht hurting yourself will just hurt the people tha really care with you... [/quote]

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- Hullabaloony 说...
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- 2006年 9月 29日, 5:16
[quote][b][user]Hullabaloony[/user][/b] 说： [/quote]

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- therandomman 说...
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- 2006年 10月 9日, 9:19
Wow. All thats bringing back the memories of all the crazy stuff I've done. I've tried killing myself atleast a kagillion times. I don't do things like that any more, thankfully, but I can tell you that I know how it is. Being medicated helps. And.... basically what you have to do is just get through that point in your life without doing anything stupid. Find someone to talk to. Friends are good. I don't really like professionals, because I feel like they want my money, but they work for some people. It really helps having someone to talk to. But other than that, get lots of rest, make sure you're getting your job/school done, and..... just try to get through it without doing something you'll regret.

Tell the pigs I did it.

[quote][b][user]therandomman[/user][/b] 说： Wow. All thats bringing back the memories of all the crazy stuff I've done. I've tried killing myself atleast a kagillion times. I don't do things like that any more, thankfully, but I can tell you that I know how it is. Being medicated helps. And.... basically what you have to do is just get through that point in your life without doing anything stupid. Find someone to talk to. Friends are good. I don't really like professionals, because I feel like they want my money, but they work for some people. It really helps having someone to talk to. But other than that, get lots of rest, make sure you're getting your job/school done, and..... just try to get through it without doing something you'll regret.[/quote]

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- psycho-cookie 说...
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- 2007年 1月 27日, 11:52
I perfectly understand people who hurt themselves..
I don't cut myself for at least a year, my mum discovered what I did and just.. I didn't want her to care and be sad..
these are only my problems..
I started smoking and slimming myself, not just being on a diet but not eating at all, it made me ill and I was so happy that I'd be able to die with pain but.. just my parents sent me to doctors and I'm now under control..partly and everytime I am able not to eat or smoke cigs I feel like I've been doing something really evil to myself..

I just love it..

Nobody likes me
Everybody hates me
and I'm not even German.

[quote][b][user]psycho-cookie[/user][/b] 说： I perfectly understand people who hurt themselves.. I don't cut myself for at least a year, my mum discovered what I did and just.. I didn't want her to care and be sad.. these are only my problems.. I started smoking and slimming myself, not just being on a diet but not eating at all, it made me ill and I was so happy that I'd be able to die with pain but.. just my parents sent me to doctors and I'm now under control..partly and everytime I am able not to eat or smoke cigs I feel like I've been doing something really evil to myself.. I just love it..[/quote]

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